My New Book

Coming April 8, 2025
Available Now for Pre-Order!

A deeply personal motherhood memoir about how the challenges moms face daily sharpen them into stronger, braver, and better parents for their children.

Motherhood is hard. It's full of plenty of moments where a mom might think, “I don’t know if I can do this.”

Danielle Sherman-Lazar has had this thought many times as she’s raised her four young daughters under 10, from her struggles with breastfeeding to two of her daughters’ stays at the NICU.

Through personal and honest stories on motherhood and her struggles with eating disorders, Mothers are Made shows how moms aren’t instantly born along with their babies—mothers are made through time and experience. It's when mothers go through the fire, Danielle argues, that we are forged into resilient, brave, and courageous parents.

Danielle's writing is raw and relatable, and she shows how overcoming challenges with eating disorders, then facing the challenges of perfectionism, self-doubt, anxiety, and loneliness has given her tremendous inner strength, resilience, and confidence. Through real stories full of honesty, love, tenderness, and humor, she reminds her readers that they, too, have the knowledge and tenacity to persevere through any obstacle.

Mothers are Made will help moms realize that they can handle crises as they arise—large or small. And they will recognize that they are not alone in their struggles. Danielle’s vulnerability will help readers find the courage to keep going through the uncomfortable parts of motherhood, knowing they’ll get to the other side—a better, happier, and stronger mom.

Pre-order your copy today!

  • “As mothers struggle through a parenting journey without the necessary support and resources, Danielle’s encouraging words offer positive encouragement and a much-needed focus on mental health that is not only changing the way mothers’ parent their children, but also the way they speak to themselves.”

    - Mikala Albertson, MD, author of Ordinary on Purpose: Surrendering Perfect and Discovering Beauty Amid the Rubble

  • “Danielle’s words hit straight to the heart of every mother. She captures the gut-wrenching agony and the profound beauty found in parenting our kids in today's modern world. But most importantly, she reminds us that we are not alone in this journey, offering us a hand to hold as we walk this challenging path - and there is no greater gift than that.”

    - Whitney Fleming, co-owner, Parenting Teens and Tweens, creator, @WhitneyFlemingWrites 

  • “Danielle’s words are filled with honesty, empathy, courage, and vulnerability. Her essays resonate with mothers of all ages, backgrounds, and stages because she doesn’t shy away from the difficulties and hard truths about motherhood…. Her writing is a gift that I hope every mother will have the privilege of receiving.”

    - Randi Latzman, creator of Surviving Mom Blog with Randi Latzman

  • “Sherman-Lazar writes about motherhood in a way no one else can, eloquently balancing the beauty with the challenges. It’s no wonder she’s one of the most endearing and captivating writers on modern motherhood today.”

    - Celeste Yvonne, author of It's Not About the Wine

  • “Danielle’s writing is raw, visceral, and unforgettable. Her ability to provide fresh perspectives to the world and weave words that so accurately depict the human experience is unmatched. Reading her work is like self-care.”

    -Sophia San Filippo, Managing Editor, Love What Matters

  • “When I think of great, insightful, empathetic writers who share stories about motherhood, Danielle Sherman-Lazar is at the top of the list. Her work speaks to those who are in the trenches, like a friend who lets them know they are not alone.”

    - Valli Vida Gideons, author of "Through the Fog: Navigating Life's Challenges While Raising Kids with Hearing Loss" 

  • “Danielle’s words are a soothing balm for the soul. Empowering women everywhere and reminding us that we are not alone in this motherhood journey, and perhaps more importantly - you are seen.”

    - Christine Derengowski, Writer

  • “Danielle has a way of using her words to touch the souls of her readers. Her raw, honest pieces shed light on long-hidden struggles endured by mothers, making us all feel seen and heard. She breathes hope into the hearts of so many women. Her words are so important and needed for mothers today.”

    - Mehr Lee, Raise Her Wild @raiseherwild

  • “Danielle’s words are a balm to the soul for mothers all over the world who find themselves in need of encouragement, support, and solidarity. Through her gorgeous, compelling, and relatable writing, she has empowered a community of hundreds of thousands of women to embrace body positivity, self-acceptance, and the most real, authentic parts of motherhood."

    - Emily Solberg, Shower Arguments with Emily Solberg

  • “Danielle’s writing is a light in the darkness to mothers everywhere. Her insights capture just what is in our hearts and minds as we parent, and her voice lifts us up with her understanding.”

    - Amy Betters Midtvedt, author and educator

My Children’s Books

It’s OKAY to NOT be OKAY

When Sophia sees her mommy crying, it makes her feel sad, too...

But after a little chat and a big hug, Mommy explains how grown-ups have emotions just like children do – they can be scared and sad and happy, and that’s all perfectly fine. Feelings come and go, sometimes with a little bit of help, and that’s the same at any age and any stage.

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“This is a charming book with a simple yet impactful message… mental health is important, and it is natural and normal to feel a range of emotions, even unpleasant ones. A good reminder for readers young and old.” 

– Dr. Jillian Roberts, child psychologist and author

“Such a delightful and affirming story to help guide and teach our children to navigate our emotional experiences. This book transforms complex ideas and themes into simple, kid- friendly concepts. I highly recommend it, especially during these trying times.” 

– Rebecca J. Yum, P.h.D. licensed clinical psychologist

It’s OKAY to Embrace Your Body

When Sophia develops a case of the body blues, she isn’t sure what to do…

But with the help of a few special friends, Mommy explains how bodies are beautiful and powerful, and can do amazing things – like moving and jumping and wiggling. Getting body blues is normal, but they shouldn’t stop anyone from doing what they love – in Sophia’s case, getting pool-party ready in her swimsuit!

Mental health related articles

 
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No One Is Having an Easing Time Right Now
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Sometimes I’m Tired Of Doing It All
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Why I Wouldn’t Change My Imperfect Body
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This Is the Definition of Beauty I Will Teach My Daughters
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See all my articles on “Her View From Home”
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Please Don’t Comment on My Size, EVER
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You’ll Never Regret Having More Kids
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Yep, I’m That “Crazy Mom” Outside in the Freezing Cold With Her Kids
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I’m Teaching My Kids to Ask Their Friends if They’re Ok
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I’m the Worrywart Parent in Our Family
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I’m Afraid It’s Going to Be a Lonely Winter for a Lot of Mothers
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Body Resilience Starts With Us
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Moms Deserve to Be More Than Just Fine
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See all my articles from “Today Parents”
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I’m Pretty Much Drowning Most of the Time, and Self Care Isn’t Going to Fix It
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Today for the First Time Ever, I Clocked Out
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We’re the Best Moms for Our Children Even When We Don’t Have It Together
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See all my articles from “Filter Free Parents”
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Podcasts

 

Striving to Be FULL! A Healing Journey of Self-Acceptance
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Love What Matters podcast “Rock Your Kindness with Tracey Ferrin”

 
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